April 30, 2014

Intentioning Nourishing Body Life




If you are a follower of Jesus you are part of His Body. And every part of Christ’s Body must willingly make space and opportunity in their life for joyful belonging and connecting. This sharing of our life in Jesus constitutes Body Life. And as such we share an individual and a corporate life and identity.
We need to first become acquainted with and get to know our personal identity, which is who we are “in Christ”. Paul describes this as our “new life”. Our “new” life is hidden (safe and secure) in Christ with God. And he describes this as a mystery with us simultaneously being in Christ and Christ being in us. And second, equally as real and vital, we are ‘baptized’ (placed by virtue of faith) into His Body. Therefore we are forever, moment by moment intertwined with Jesus, His Heavenly Father and his Holy Spirit!
“But if God himself has taken up residence in your life, you can hardly be thinking more of yourself than of him. Anyone, of course, who has not welcomed this invisible but clearly present God, the Spirit of Christ, won't know what we're talking about. 10 But for you who welcome him, in whom he dwells - even though you still experience all the limitations of sin - you yourself experience life on God's terms. 11 It stands to reason, doesn't it, that if the alive-and-present God who raised Jesus from the dead moves into your life, he'll do the same thing in you that he did in Jesus, bringing you alive to himself? When God lives and breathes in you (and he does, as surely as he did in Jesus), you are delivered from that dead life. With his Spirit living in you, your body will be as alive as Christ's! 12 So don't you see that we don't owe this old do-it-yourself life one red cent? 13 There's nothing in it for us, nothing at all. The best thing to do is give it a decent burial and get on with your new life. 14 God's Spirit beckons. There are things to do and places to go! 15 This resurrection life you received from God is not a timid, grave-tending life. It's adventurously expectant, greeting God with a childlike "What's next, Papa?" 16 God's Spirit touches our spirits and confirms who we really are. We know who he is, and we know who we are: Father and children. 17 And we know we are going to get what's coming to us - an unbelievable inheritance! We go through exactly what Christ goes through. If we go through the hard times with him, then we're certainly going to go through the good times with him” (Romans 8:9-18, Msg)
Then corporately we are the Church! This creates a shared identity that is natural, super-natural, universal and historical. Shared identity emerges and develops best when/where grace-filled, loving spontaneity and serendipity is mutually celebrated and nurture is facilitated.
“The way God designed our bodies is a model for understanding our lives together as a church: every part dependent on every other part, the parts we mention and the parts we don't, 26 the parts we see and the parts we don't. If one part hurts, every other part is involved in the hurt, and in the healing. If one part flourishes, every other part enters into the exuberance. 27 You are Christ's body - that's who you are! You must never forget this. Only as you accept your part of that body does your "part" mean anything.” (1 Cor. 12:25-27, Msg)
Both of these realities are incredibly dependent upon successfully creating a Christ-centered sense of family. This sense of family calls forth an authentic, shared, common life. In this corporate identity every individual can naturally and super-naturally connect to Christ and His Body.
“The development of ‘meaningful’ relationships where ‘every member’ carries a significant sense of belonging [and connecting] is central to what it means to be the church.” (Randy Frazee, ‘The Connecting Church’)
This will require an integrous common relational reality and conversation. It is imperative to realize that many haven’t been equipped with functional or healthy relational skills. Instead more of our brethren than we know or care to know come into Christ’s Body and family equipped only with the skills and rules of a dysfunctional family.
The future of the church depends on whether it develops authentic family/community. We can get by for a while on size, skilled communication, and/or programs [that are designed] to meet every “need”, but unless we sense that we belong  to each other; with masks off, the vibrant church of today will become the powerless church of tomorrow. Stale, irrelevant, a place of pretense where suffers suffer alone, where pressures merely generate conformity rather than the Spirit creating ‘shared life’—that’s where the church is headed unless it focuses on healthy vibrant community building.
The church can be no stronger than her families are healthy and functional. And if left unhealed and under-developed, the Body will have little chance of creating healthy and shared life.
Dysfunctional families are dys-graced and imploding at epidemic rates in today’s culture and society.  Unfortunately, most churches have failed to see them as their own members and families. Too often, they suffer in silence behind a pretentious mask of religious performance. And these people of faith silently languish in doubt and hopelessness. They become the ‘glass’ people the church looks right through; not seeing their incredible potential!
The ability to love God, others or self diminishes in light of unresolved and unhealed life-dominating issues. But, it is equally enhanced (and even exponentially increased) by addressing and healing these issues associated with dysfunctional family systems. Too many Christian families are suffering in silence and the devastation left in the wake of hidden addictions and/or life issues. The inability to experience abundant and joyful living indicates life issues needing healing.
Ministering to hurting and dysfunctional families is a challenging task. The issues and problems associated with family dysfunction (i.e. addiction, abuse, trauma, and woundedness) seem to be overwhelming. It doesn’t matter how long we minister in this field-it remains a challenge that calls us to humility and faith every step of the way!
Each person/family is unique and presents challenges that often require long-term intensive spiritual care. Patience is not only a virtue; it is a must for success and survival. No matter how experienced the leaders, no one formula can be employed to address the problems they face. The presenting and the underlying issues/problems/dysfunction are simply too great and defy conventional methods. But, equally true is that you will be amazed at the spontaneous flow of Holy Spirit in each person’s life.
The antidote to dys-function and dys-grace is grace! Grace makes space and time for function to develop. This ‘grace of God’ is the foundation to recovery in family and community Body life.
“Grace is the dynamic outpouring of God’s loving nature that flows into and through creation in an endless self-offering of healing, love, illumination, and reconciliation. It is a gift that we are free to ignore, reject, ask for, or simply accept. And it is a gift that is often given in spite of our intentions and errors. At such times, when grace is so clearly given unrequested, uninvited, even undeserved, there can be no authentic response but gratitude and awe.” Addiction and Grace, Gerald G. May
Too many of these precious, authentic families/believers have languished in the hurts of their dysfunctional upbringing way too long, all the while sincerely hoping to move beyond these issues to maturity. But ‘sick rules and thinking’ kept them enslaved.
Shrouded in denial; for fear of shame and rejection, these hurting, dysfunctional families (without graceful and truthful healing) will continue 'posing’ as normal.
It’s not that the cover-up is intentional; rather, it is that the church is too often a closed system. The church often mirrors the ‘sick’ rules that keep the dysfunctional family from getting the help they so desperately need and long for.
Here are some of the ‘sick’ rules that keep hurting families from grace and stuck in their secret pain and addictive behaviors. Do any of them ring true to you?
Don’t talk…while pretending that the obvious elephant in the living room (or Sanctuary) is not there—no one in the family/church system confronts what is painfully obvious to even casual onlookers. Even loving confrontation is avoided at all costs, to the demise and potential death of all involved in the silent charade.
Don’t trust…with a ‘sick’ fierce loyalty, the addicted family system is suspicious of the motives of any who would attempt to bring clarity and authenticity to their attention. Having been hurt while placing miss-guided trust in dysfunctional family members, this broken trust is unfortunately projected on God and well meaning brothers and sisters in Christ.
Don’t feel…while languishing in intolerable pain (anxiety and fear) the dysfunctional strategy of stuffing and walling off our painful reality is employed as a ‘sick’ friend who will protect us from further hurt. To deny pain is to allow our hearts to be kidnapped by hopeless fear, never risking the brokenness that brings joy and peace.
There are others, but these three are the foundational culprits that give rise to all manner of dysfunctional family symptoms. Do any of these symptoms characterize individuals and families in your church?
·        We are incapable of building and maintaining enduring, meaningful and intimate relationships with God, ourselves, or others.
·        We find it difficult to trust ourselves or others in a deepening fashion; thus it is hard for us to live by faith.
·        We do not possess the skills or vocabulary necessary for the healthy communication of feelings, preferences, ideas, or needs.
·        We do not know how to manage the inevitable stressors of life; we cannot easily play, relax, quiet, or rest.
·        We are resistant to change.
·        We are rigid and inflexible in our thoughts and actions.
·        We lack the ability to grow spiritually and emotionally.
·        We do not know how or where to seek help or to offer help to others.
·        We do not know how to handle adult responsibilities and relationships.
·        We often feel like we don’t belong anywhere.
·        We have difficulty developing healthy beliefs, morals and values.
·        We have a strong need to be in control.
·        We have difficulty following projects from beginning to end.
·        We feel guilty when we stand up for ourselves.
·        We give to others at the expense of proper self-care.
In light of these prevalent conditions and needs in the family, Biblically sound recovery ministry is not optional. Helping individuals and families grow up grace-fully in Christ remains one of the greatest challenges of the 21st Century Church. The following passage provides a Biblical norm for growth. As you read it, ask yourself a very honest question—does this Scripture reflect our contemporary Christian experience?
12 to train (the original word for ‘train’ or ‘equip’ as other translations render it, means to repair and prepare) Christians in skilled servant work, working within Christ's body, the church, 13 until we're all moving rhythmically and easily with each other, efficient and graceful in response to God's Son, fully mature adults, fully developed within and without, fully alive like Christ. 14 No prolonged infancies among us, please. We'll not tolerate babes in the woods, small children who are an easy mark for impostors. 15 God wants us to grow up, to know the whole truth and tell it in love - like Christ in everything. We take our lead from Christ, who is the source of everything we do. 16 He keeps us in step with each other. His very breath and blood flow through us, nourishing us so that we will grow up healthy in God, robust in love. (Eph. 4:12-16, Msg)
Everything that is Healthy Grows
Unfortunately, many coming to Christ today were so impaired that if they are not also repaired it will be very difficult to ‘train’ or ‘equip’ them to become prepared to live in the fullness that is ‘righteously’ theirs in Christ. Through the hope of this Gospel intervention Jesus nurtures them to grow beyond past and present infirmities. This is the essence of why so many never reach their destined potential in Christ. Biblically speaking, they are stuck in unhealed or unresolved infirmities.
In the New Testament, the word infirmity indicates a weakness or lack of strength that exists from previously unhealed or unresolved wounding or crippling. The word is rarely used in a purely physical sense. Rather, it indicates moral, relational, character, mental or emotional weakness or a lack of strength in those vital areas of life. Having infirmities is not sin, but they do weaken one’s resistance to temptation. Above all, Jesus understands the fact of our infirmities. (This powerful understanding about infirmity comes from the teaching of Dr. David A. Seamonds, especially as he presents it in “Healing for Damaged Emotions”, published by Victor Books in 1991.)
Thus, infirmities are qualities in human nature, which can and often do predispose or incline one toward sin, sometimes without any conscious choice. The Good News is that Jesus not only understands the feeling of our infirmities, but as our High Priest, He understands the fact of our infirmities…not just the crippling, not just the weaknesses, not just the emotional hang-ups and the inner conflicts, but the woundedness and pain that comes from them.
He understands the shame, the frustration, the anxiety, the depression, the hurts, and the sense of failure. He also understands the rejection and abandonment of self, the loneliness and isolation. He understands the medicating behaviors and the repeated relational failures. He understands the vain attempts to cope and cover up. He understands our secret wars and our many losses. He understands the struggles to bond and remain functional in relationships. He has compassion on the inability to attach to God and significant others. He understands the difficulty to experience healthy friendships. He understands it all and can be touched by the feeling of our infirmities.
The following scriptures introduce the healing grace of Jesus for infirmities.
He himself took up our infirmities. (Matthew 8:17 NASB) Likewise, the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities; for we know not what we should pray for as we ought; but the Spirit maketh intercession for us…according to the will of God. (Romans 8:26-27) In Hebrews 4, Jesus is portrayed as the one “who can be touched by the feeling of our infirmities.”
The scripture further exhorts the church in Romans 14 “that the strong ought to bear with those who are weak, not passing judgment on them for their ongoing struggles.”
The most dangerous life you can live is an independent and/or ignorant one. (Withdrawn and/or isolated—one becomes diluted and deluded by ‘a darkened understanding’ and ‘blind spots’)
Because of unhealed or unresolved infirmities, many in the church are stuck in life controlling issues. We then need and deserve competent, compassionate ministry to aid us to be unstuck and healed. Like Jesus, we must become a community of wounded healers and stop being unhealed wounders. When he heals and matures us, he also calls us to function with the same healing grace toward others. The following passage describes essential, non-negotiable qualities of grace empowered relationships.
 “You're left like an infant on a ship out of control in the waves and winds of the storms of life. The fall of the dice dictates while the deceptive teachings of men and their distracting tricks entertain.
Love (the revealed value that God sees in every man) gives truth its voice. In this atmosphere spontaneous growth is inevitable. The whole person is addressed in Christ who is the head of the body, (pictured as a conductor of music, epichoregeo.)
From Him flows the original composition and detail of our design like words intertwined in poetry, they connect layer upon layer to complete the harmony, following the rhythm of His thoughts like footprints. Meanwhile the body thrives and pulsates with the energy of love. Each individual part (portion) finds its full measure there.” (Ephesians 4: 14-16, The Mirror Bible, Francois du Tuoit)
“This mystery has been kept in the dark for a long time, but now it’s out in the open. God wanted everyone, not just Jews, to know this rich and glorious secret inside and out, regardless of their background, regardless of their religious standing. The mystery in a nutshell is just this: Christ is in you, so therefore you can look forward to sharing in God’s glory. It’s that simple. That is the substance of our Message. We preach Christ, warning people not to add to the Message. We teach in a spirit of profound common sense so that we can bring each person to maturity. To be mature is to be basic. Christ! No more, no less. That’s what I’m working so hard at day after day, year after year; doing my best with the energy God so generously gives me. (Col. 1:26-29, Msg)

Walk in the profound Grace of Jesus as we Intention Body Life together! Ron Ross

April 26, 2014

Engaged by Love

 

In Christ, ours is a simple and profound way of life that continually calls us to a place of proper 'due diligence'. The extent of our our doing is toward an eternal engagement with the Love of God! Any and all spiritual effort is toward this lofty end.
"I (am) engaged in a religious (Spirit-led) life only for the love of God, and I have endeavored to act only for Him; whatever becomes of me, whether I be lost or saved, I will always continue to act purely for the Love of God. I shall have this good at least, that till death I shall have done all that is in me to love Him."
"That in order to form a habit of conversing with God continuously, and referring all we do to Him, we must first apply to Him with some diligence: but that after a little care we should find His love inwardly excite us to it without any difficulty." (Brother Lawrence)
Anything less is an abandonment of our High Calling and Expected end! Ron Ross

A Befriended Heart


Become your heart's best friend today! Nurture your heart, protect your heart and share your heart. Immerse your heart into the passionate, fiery love of Jesus! He lives there!

I'll pour pure water over you and scrub you clean. I'll give you a new heart; put a new spirit in you. I'll remove the stone heart from your body and replace it with a heart that's God-willed, not self-willed. I'll put my Spirit in you and make it possible for you to do what I tell you and live by my commands.” (Ezekiel 36:25-27, Msg)

This new heart enables you to live a life marked by endless Oceans of Mercy and Grace-beyond your wildest hopes and dreams. It awakens you to living life sealed, led, secured, and filled by Holy Spirit. But even more incredible, we are invited into an ever deepening relationship with Jesus’ Father. As such, we are also gifted and called into the intimacies that Heavenly Father, He and Holy Spirit have always shared together.

Wow! Ron Ross

April 16, 2014

Yes! That is You and Me...

Your life has been hewn (quarried, cut out of) the depths of His loving and matchless character. You are the mirror image of Jesus Christ! Your identity is a reflection of His identity! You are secured in Him with Father's loving arms enfolding you forever. You are so secure that your life is hidden with Christ, in God (Col. 3)
Your value, worth, expected end and life purpose are all tied directly to Christ in you! That makes you more valuable than your wildest imagination can fathom! Gold paves the streets you walk by faith with Him on everyday. Faith activates these eternal realities-so walk by faith and not by sight today!

April 15, 2014

Branded!



Our ‘cosmos’ (present world system) parades brand name products before our senses like ‘nobodies business’. Marketing works! The numbers don’t lie. It is incredible how much money ‘branders’ will spend to get our attention and plant their client’s product in our mind. And they are after one thing; developing loyalty to their advertized brand. Does this sound familiar? He’s a ‘Marlboro man’, a ‘chevy lover’, or ‘crazy for Cocoa Puffs’!  
Madison Avenue in New York City is the giant in the development of ‘brand-name’ obsession and craze. The Advertizing companies on Madison Avenue are among the largest, most profitable, and sought after in the world. Proper market research and name recognition equal a ‘brand name’. And it’s not just for the establishing of product recognition-reliability or depending upon the experience being the same every time is equally created.
The name ‘Duck Dynasty’ is presently all the craze! They have indelibly written their ‘brand’ on countless products. But, all of that can come crashing down in a day! Instead of their ‘name recognition’ or ‘brand-name’ being a blessing, it can also become a curse overnight—just ask Paula Dean the Southern recipe and cooking sensation.
Smart farmers and ranchers put their ‘brand’ on their cattle. That way if they are lost or stolen the ‘brand’ proves who the rightful owner is. Branding always leaves a ‘scar’. As followers of Jesus we are also branded! The Apostle of Grace, Paul; put being ‘branded’ this way:
“From this time onward let no one trouble me; for, as for me, I bear, branded on my body, the scars of Jesus as my Master”. (Galatians 6:17 WYT)
“Quite frankly, I don't want to be bothered anymore by these disputes. I have far more important things to do - the serious living of this faith. I bear in my body scars from my service to Jesus.” (Galatians 6:17 Msg)
“All they have eyes for is the fashionable god of darkness. They think he can give them what they want, and that they won't have to bother believing a Truth they can't see. They're stone-blind to the dayspring brightness of the Message that shines with Christ, who gives us the best picture of God we'll ever get.
Remember, our Message is not about ourselves; we're proclaiming Jesus Christ, the Master. All we are is messengers, errand runners from Jesus for you. It started when God said, "Light up the darkness!" and our lives filled up with light as we saw and understood God in the face of Christ, all bright and beautiful. If you only look at us, you might well miss the brightness (the Jesus ‘brand’).
We carry this precious Message around in the unadorned clay pots of our ordinary lives. That's to prevent anyone from confusing God's incomparable power with us. As it is, there's not much chance of that. You know for yourselves that we're not much to look at.
We've been surrounded and battered by troubles, but we're not demoralized; we're not sure what to do, but we know that God knows what to do; we've been spiritually terrorized, but God hasn't left our side; we've been thrown down, but we haven't broken. What they did to Jesus, they do to us - trial and torture, mockery and murder; what Jesus did among them, he does in us - he lives! Our lives are at constant risk for Jesus' sake, which makes Jesus' life all the more evident in us.
 While we're going through the worst, you're getting in on the best! We're not keeping this quiet, not on your life. Just like the psalmist who wrote, "I believed it, so I said it," we say what we believe. And what we believe is that the One who rose up the Master Jesus will just as certainly raise us up with you, alive". (2 Corinthians 4:4-14)
Again, branding leaves a scar! But it is those very scars, the ‘brand’ of Jesus stamped upon our soul and spirit, which assures us of belonging to the ‘brander’! My identity ‘brand-name’ is Jesus!
Jesus Christ, Our Brand-name and Identity, Ron Ross

April 14, 2014

Passions Expose`



What is passion? It is surely the becoming and releasing of our authentic self. Are we not, for most of our lives, marking time? Most of our being is at rest, un-lived, unless sparked by passion. In passion; the body, soul and spirit seek expression outside of self. What we are ‘passionate’ about reveals the uniqueness that is ‘us’. Passion ignites giftedness and causes us to live out who we are~~ in the ‘image’ and ‘likeness’ of God. 
All passion is measured in “the passion of Christ” (read Isaiah 53).  Passion called Jesus to earth to live the exemplary life. And it called the Son of Man to the cross to make the ultimate sacrifice. Of course, His expression of passion is the most extreme in history. The more extreme and the more expressed that passion becomes; the more unbearable life seems without it. It reminds us that if passion dies or is denied, we are partly dead and that soon, come what may, we will be wholly so.  
Passion; unlike the major portion of life’s experiences, brings about change. But it is change that seems like a cruel joke apart from the virtue and spiritual fruit of patience. “The changes I bring about in passion come about slowly. Passion; on the one hand hurries you and at the same time makes life a series of deliberate acts. 
Passion calls you deeper and deeper into ‘My’ story. The more you attempt to hold on to your confidence in the goodness of the story I am telling while at the same time acknowledging all that is bewildering and maddening and shatteringly disappointing in this life, the more you will be confronted with the ongoing moment of decision, to passionately trust or not to trust. Only in dark nights will hope burn bright enough to sustain your faith and release your love. 
Impulse and passion are the very life-blood of all action. The challenge of growth, and ultimately maturity, is to learn to strike the balance between impulse and passion. This challenge will frustrate you to the point of desiring and settling for nothing short of Divine Intervention. 
Passion will open your eyes and let what you see drive you to the precipice of unbelief. It will also let what you feel bring you to the brink of despair. Passion reminds us that Jesus exists, that He is good, that His story loves us, and that His plan is on course. His Spirit will continually speak into those deep places of our hearts that only terrifying doubt renders accessible. And in that place, He will anchor you in hope! 
Arms Open Wide by Misty Edwards brings Passion in focus!
What does love look like? Is the question I’ve been pondering
What does love look like?
What does love look like? is the question I’ve been asking of You
Once believed that love was romance, just a chance
I even thought that love was for the lucky and the beautiful
I once believed that love was a momentary bliss, but love is more than this
All You ever wanted was my attention
All You ever wanted was love from me
All You ever wanted was my affections to sit here at Your feet and tell me
What does love look like? Is the question I’ve been pondering
What does love look like? If all of life comes down to love then tell me
What does love look like? Is the question I’ve been pondering
What does love look like?
Then I sat down a little frustrated and confused
Your fire of life comes down to love. And love has to be more than sentiment,
More than selfishness and selfish gain
Then I saw Him there
Hanging on a tree, looking at me
I saw Him there
Hanging on a tree, looking at me
He was looking at me looking at Him, staring through me
I could not escape those beautiful eyes
And I began to weep and weep
He had arms wide open, heart exposed
Arms wide open, He was bleeding, bleeding.
Arms wide open, heart exposed
Arms wide open, He was bleeding, bleeding
Loves definition
Loves definition, was looking at me
Looking at Him. Hanging on a tree
I began to weep and weep and weep and weep
This is how I know what love is.
And as I sat there, weeping, crying, those beautiful eyes
Full of desire and love. And He said to me
You shall love Me...You shall love Me.
With arms wide open, heart exposed
With arms wide open, bleeding, sometimes bleeding
You shall love Me… You shall love Me.
If anybody’s looking for love in all the wrong places
If you’ve been searching for love, come to Me. Come to me.
Take up your cross. Deny yourself.
Forget your father’s house and run. Run with Me.
Cause you were made for abandon your heart and listen
Cause you were made for Someone greater, Someone bigger, so follow Me.
And you’ll come alive when you learn to die.
And He said to me
You shall love Me. You shall love Me
With arms wide open, heart exposed
With arms wide open, bleeding, sometimes bleeding
These lyrics touch the heart of "Passion and Spiritual Intimacy"—a passion and intimacy few ever allow their selves to risk. Lose yourself, your religious inhibitions and the worldly filth of gross distortions of our God given ability to relate to Jesus with all of who we are in Him-we are "Passionate, spiritual beings" in Jesus! Worship means to “Kiss toward!”
In the grip of Papa’s passionate love, Ron Ross